RELATIONSHIPS
Question:
Is my partner going to continue to be in my life for a long time?
Answer:
Well darling, this is something no one can tell you. As we said before, we are freedom and freedom implies intention. Intention goes with the order of the universe which is expansion.
In physicality you call it love.
You and your partner are freedom, love and intention. Mind wants to know the future because the mind wants to be sure. In that context, the future doesn’t exist.
The best way we can tell you this is - be present in the now as a habit. Forget the past and forget the future. Just be present.
Presence is a wonderful gift that if you give it to someone, that one wants more.
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Question:
Why can’t I let go of my past?
Earlier today I found out my ex has a new partner. At first I was very happy for my ex and felt this was a good opportunity for me to let go and truly move on.
Now I feel jealousy. I hate it. I hate that another person now calls who I think is the love of my life, “mine”.
But I have no right. I chose this. I left. I wanted my ex to move on.
But I can’t help it. I’m jealous he / she can enjoy my ex without longing for something else.
I’m jealous I couldn’t give him / her my 100%. And now I can’t give my new life 100% because I have been thinking of “what if’s”.
Where are all these feelings coming from, and why is it so hard for me to let go?
Answer:
What you feel is a direct response of what you believe and what you are thinking about this particular subject.
Feeling jealous means that your thoughts are running; saying that your ex was yours and someone now took her / him, as you have learned how to express it.
However that is not necessarily the whole truth.
There are many stories around this subject.
Moving for you was only a little interpretation for you not to commit. Now your ex is an interpretation for you not to enjoy your life there. You need to find the thought that is making you believe that a place can make you happy or a person can make you happy.
It would be our suggestion that you replace that thought after you find it and realize how ridiculous it is, for another better feeling thought. LIKE; YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR HAPPINESS AND YOU CAN BE YOUR GUIDE TO ANY PLACE AND BE HAPPY THERE. (It’s always your choice).
About your Ex:
People in our life are unique and un-replaceable. Your ex is unique for you as you are for him / her. The flavour of your relationship is unique too. And you can feel that with someone else as long as you are aware and present in what you want in your life. Passion, adventure, laughter, freedom. You can have that with someone if you believe you can.
So dear child, remove the thinking that is telling you that you make mistakes and you can’t have it all. Remove the thought that tells you that you can not be whole and happy because it is a false premise.
Start by talking more about this openly and listen to yourself. Write it down so you can catch what kind of thought you are entertaining.
Meditation helps to be clear and become more capable to catch your own thoughts.
Visit the Siil Canaan friends so they can teach all the things they have learned about beliefs . A world 🌎 Is waiting for you, time to travel inside and outside.
Time to move. Motion is freedom, freedom is self love. Love always help you to create your true pure intentions.
Question:
Why can’t I settle with my partner? Why don’t I feel relaxed and happy in something that is good? Why am I always searching?
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Answer:
Your inner being never take it easy on you when mind wants to settle down for less than your soul is here for.
Strong mind training happens to humans in early stages of childhood.
That is why almost everybody takes for granted that what society desires for you is what you should desire.
But you, as a unique and powerful being, and older than this life, has energy and dreams outside of what this life costs you.
A journey inside of you is precisely to discover what those desires are and what your none physical agreements are to fulfil and create what you want.
We don’t recommend you to suppress your inner being in the name of what society wants for you and what your mind assures you is true for you.
Go to your inner being in search.
Be in the present and enjoy how you move from where you are to where you really want to be.
We know you don’t have it clear yet, but you will if you just make a little decision now - Start moving on where it feels better mentally and physically.
Make a decision to trust your inner being.
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Question:
What can you tell me about jealousy?
Answer:
You know, we are never far from you anyway, we witness your life with joy and thrill. Life is supposed to feel good.
When it doesn’t, it only means that our thoughts and beliefs are off.
In other words, when life causes you to feel jealousy, it means that your thoughts and opinions are ruled by your unconscious mind because it completely identifies with what you are thinking.
Thoughts like; this is my relationship, I am a partner, I am invested in this relationship, I am happy when I am with him / her, I have big expectations and plans for him / her, I have planned, and I am still planning, a future with him / her…etc.
All those scenarios lay in a core belief that says, “I need someone else to be happy because I am not good enough, I am not complete, therefore I am not good”.
Those core beliefs are wrong, they are false premises.
You are good, therefore, you need no-one else to be happy, when you are happy people get drawn to you.
You are freedom, you are love, and you are intention. And you are aware that others are freedom, love, and intention.
Jealousy is the body responding, that very uncomfortable feeling is the result of a thought that is not accurate and normally those thoughts are showing up in your mind as a story that you are believing. 99% of the time it’s not a true story since it’s missing so many things you don’t know.
When you feel jealousy toward a partner, friend, family, or any human being, you have a relationship with them - it’s an invitation to re-think your beliefs about yourself.
Are you remembering who you really are? Or are you deep asleep in the identification of the relationship thinking that any of them must behave in a certain way that gives priority to what you want, and not just that, but in the way you prefer?
All those insecurities are promoted from your society. There are beliefs shared with a lot of people in your planet that are fundamentally wrong because, denied and buried, the only belief you all need to have is…YOU ARE GOOD!
You are the only driver of your life, and you are rejoice with your life, your relationships, with full freedom, choosing to be present in the now and appreciating the time others spend with you with no attachments since you are GOOD, and you live from experience to experience with joy and ease. If someone gives you company for a while you feel blessed for the time together.
This apply to all relationships; family, friends, lovers.
In a nutshell, your jealousy is an invitation to review your beliefs about what is a relationship. What is your existence all about.
We can help you - please write what do you believe is a relationship for you?
We will help you to crack that belief so you can design a belief that is beautiful and a belief that makes you feel better!
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Those beliefs get triggered when you are exposed to some experiences. Normally you feel very happy because your expectations and reality are matching. In the moment something doesn't go as you planned, then the jealousy kicks in!
And that feeling is not a bad thing, it is the opportunity to review your beliefs about what is your definition of relationship, because the one you have is the one responsible for you feeling insecure.
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